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Reply to "Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?"
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[quote=Anonymous]People that have affairs are weak individuals. They lack morals and ethics. They get to hide behind “keeping the family intact” and “finances”. Spouses who stay with partners who they know are having affairs have little self worth. They do get to hide behind “keeping the family intact” and “finances” At that point, both spouses are just 2 people co-habitating to share living expenses and the challenges of raising kids. There is no more “marriage” and certainly not a respect for wedding vows. Yes life is tedious. The hot and heavy feelings that occur when you first meet fade significantly after 10, 20, 30 yrs. You won’t ever be able to recreate those sparks with your spouse. But you can create a solid family and a deep friendship built on shared experiences. The problem is that this doesn’t excite people they way a first kiss filled with chemistry does.[/quote]
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