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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The swinger thing seems unrelated to the marriage and moving problem. [/quote]

Agreed[/quote]

For me the two feel related because both are indicative of issues out of my comfort zone, both related to timing. Were we committed and longer term, moving would likely be in the cards, as would some physical stuff we haven't tried yet. Re: being in a rush, that's just it. I'm not. I'm very happy dating and allowing things to move along at a timeline that makes sense, esp bc we both have families. I brought up the marriage issue early so he understood my long term priorities, and the engagement issue recently due to all this discussion about moving. Not because I'm ready to commit to that. I'm not. But I needed to make it clear that big decisions (like moving) required bigger discussions about us, rather than talk about geography. That's some serious cart-before-the-horse stuff that really weirded me out. My singe life with my son here in DC may not be exciting, but it's hard-earned and solid, not some stock I'm looking to dump. I'd love to combine our lives into a bigger picture (not just to "give him a dad", but to build a family for us), but the picture has to make sense. [/quote]

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