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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow OP I’m so sorry. I am so impressed that you managed to raise your nephew during residency! How in the world did you do that?!? 
I would mention foster care to her and adoption as a real possibility- not by her choice. She probably thinks that you would never call CPS on her but in this situation I would make it clear that if moves forward you absolutely will. You need to put the needs of the baby first and a newborn adoption would be so much better than being raised by her[/quote]

It's likely CPS will get wind of it anyway.  A positive test, odd behavior, an inappropriate visitor, a hunch and a background check, a nurse who doesn't feel comfortable with the ability to care for a newborn, really anything can trip a wire.[/quote]

I agree.. If I were OP I’d be majorly hoping for pre-arranged adoption for this very reason. This poor baby will end up “in the system” and bounced around, otherwise, which has to be a horrible way to grow up. I don’t see much hope that the sister will change her ways- the other son is 18 already- if she hasn’t yet, I doubt she ever will. [/quote]

Yes. And OP will end up stepping in to save the baby from this- and end up raising him/her. What a horrible no-win position for OP to be put in. Ugh! This is one of the saddest posts I’ve read on DCUM actually. I really hope her sister comes to her senses and places the baby for adoption. OP is already raising FOUR children. [/quote]

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