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[quote=Anonymous]		I feel you op. For those of you saying op had a choice, that's true up to a point. Women are often told to "support their husband's job choices" with the expectation that if they do, he will be happy and he will be kinder and more loving to them. Look at all the nonsense about "home is where the heart is" or "home is where my honey is". Add to that a city that op hates coupled with her husband wanting to save money in a way that seems to piss him off, and op has got to wonder why she's there. 
OP, I would tell your husband that you all moved for him to fly a six-drawer. If he isn't happy at his dream job, then he needs to find something better. Now is a good time to move both because your kid is little and you don't like where you live.

Take this as a learning experience and be very firm in what you want. Don't compromise on location, house or anything else. Having lived in places that I've hated, where I was treated like a third-class citizen, and one rough neighborhood, where you live is not something you want to compromise on. Women feel the effects of a bad environment very differently then men. Look for children, dogs and people who want to talk to you. That's how you know you are in a good (note I didn't say expensive area). I've been made fun of on this board for posting this, but it's a rule I will not break Your husband had his chance at doing tthings his way. If he was kind and loving to you, and if you liked the current city, I wouldn't be so blunt. Clearly, his plan sent you into a depression (assuming you were healthy to begin with) and the current setup isn't doing anything for him.  
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