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[quote=Anonymous]My two cents (and I've never been in your position so discount my two cents as you see fit): Just reach out - in an open ended way, without any major baggage/drama/deadlines/announcements attached. "Hi Bob, I hope you are ok. I was wondering whether you'd be open to meeting for coffee or lunch? I have been doing a lot of thinking and, despite where we find ourselves now, I miss being able to talk things through with you. Can I buy you a latte?" Or whatever words feel right to you. But not some huge emotional bomb of an email or message, not a reaching out. No matter what happens w/ your marriage you're in a process that takes time, and evolution, and work, and both of you. So don't lay everything on your first call or meeting or conversation. Just reach out and see what happens. Good luck.[/quote]
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