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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s not a need.  It’s a desire.  That’s why there aren’t roving bands of hormone-driven sexless makes wandering around raping women as a matter of course.  Males go without sex all the time, and they don’t die.  It is not a need.

I like to have a massage several times a week,  it feels great, it relaxes me, and it reduces the pain in my old shoulder injury.  But if for some reason I can’t get one, I will not die.

I won’t argue with you that sex is a motivating factor in behavior.  I would never agree to stay in a sexless relationship.  But I’m also mature and honest enough to admit that going without sex does not force me to cheat or rape.  If I cheat, it’s because I’ve decided to stay in a sexless marriage and cheat.  I’d own that.  You should, too. [/quote]

You are awesome![/quote]

I totally agree, and I’d like to point out that a view of men which frames them as uncontrollably driven by their sexual need is as damaging to men as it is to women.  Men have brains that enable them to control their biologic urges in a way that allows them to get along in society, not rape, not harrass, and not cheat.  To believe men are incapable of that is insulting to MEN.[/quote]

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