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[quote=Anonymous]Listen. The conversation now is about wether you will let her move in. If you will do a nice thing for her. After she moves in, if you ever want her to leave, the conversation will be about you kicking her out onto the street. No matter how long she’s lived with you, the moment you decide to revisit the decision, you will be the monster that’s trying to kick her out of her home. There will be no gratitude for the months/years she’s lived with you. (Along the same lines, letting her move in for 6 months is a meaningless distinction for the reasons listed above. When the 6 months are up, she won’t ask to stay longer, it will be assumed that she can stay longer because she lives there.) You either need to be okay with her staying indefinitely or not let her move in. [/quote]
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