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[quote=Anonymous]I feel like we just generally are in communication with each other as a best practice. I think that if its in the routine category ie groceries (which is 200-400 depending on what is going on that week or whatever) then I don't mention it. But we worked together on picking out a wagon for DS's birthday that was going to be 100+ and serve as a family tool as well. He knows how much the drywall repairs are I get estimates on and has a vague idea of how much the house cleaners get. I would not make any personal or not discussed purchase for more than like $300 without checking with him. But I wouldn't need to tell him if I spent $500 on clothes to spruce up a wardrobe. Mostly because thats a rare event and he trusts that I'm not an irresponsible spender. HHI 250k ish.[/quote]
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