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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did he take the job against your wishes? If my DH did that, I wouldn’t be moving with him. [/quote] This is the detail that matters most to me. When DH decided on a career path that may or may not require frequent moves (it hasn't so far), it was a decision we made together. I agreed to it and we talked about what that would mean for our family. We were both on board and even made a detailed list of locations we would be willing to accept a job, locations that were an absolute no, and then a maybe list. Unless you're leaving a lot out of your OP, it doesn't sound like you had an agreement with your spouse. I agree with PP that you two need counseling. You're not making decisions together. That is not a road you want to keep going down.[/quote]
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