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[quote=Anonymous]Doesn't matter if she works or not. I divorced my first husband because of this. He broke every agreement we had. After finally settling down and buying our dream home he came home one day telling me we were going to move out of the country. His company offered him a position overseas for 2-5 years. I put a plan in action to divorce him. Best thing I did. Got the home and ended up remarrying someone that was stable.  Ex ended up changing jobs another 2-3 times and remarried 7 years ago. After he died I got his retirement. His widow didn't get much because of all the job changes. Said he had a lot of debt to.

OP very concerning your husband doesn't consult you. This is the bigger problem, only you can decide how long you want to put up with this. Will this be the last move? Will you like the area you are moving to? I would stipulate with your DH this is the last time you will be uprooted. Let him know if he pulls this again you and the kids won't be joining him. My ex was pretty upset and shocked when I followed through on my divorce plans. I guess he really thought I meekly do whatever HE decided in life. He was even more shocked when I met someone soon after, and remarried.

Someone that changes jobs that often isn't very stable. Like I said there's a lot more going on here and you may want to look out for your own future.[/quote]

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