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[quote=Anonymous]I have been married 20 years and we have sex five/six times a week. We even kept that up with a baby and a three year old. You just can't wait for the perfect time. Life doesn't work that way.

I can't imagine being in a sexless marriage. No thank you. if you aren't into having sex with the person you are married to, then you aren't with the right person. It isn't even the sex, it's the lack of intimacy that kills the marriage. Sex keeps you connected. I think when you stop having sex you also lose the little but important things. Like, hugs, a rub on the head when cuddling on the couch, a soft kiss when I am making dinner, etc. As my husband said, men also need their wives to tell them they look good, they want them, etc.

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I have a friend who won't have sex unless her husband does all this ridiculous stuff throughout the day to "get her in the mood". It's like a chore to have sex with her....I try to tell her she is killing her marriage, but she won't listen to me. The one thing that did get her to realize she was being ridicuolous is when I asked her what she did to get her husband in the mood? She was like...they are always in the mood. I had her rethink that. I simply turned it around on her....if you husband started telling you all the things you didn't do the way you wanted them done, etc....would you want to have sex with him? Probably not? :)[/quote]

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