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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yikes. I get being annoyed or frustrated but rage? To the point where you're scared to touch the kid because you might shake them or beat them up?

Therapy, seek some. You need help.[/quote]

And...this is why it needs to be posted. Your judgement only serves to further stigmatize and shame those who are in fear. Making them feel more ashamed and afraid only makes it harder for them to open up and talk about these overwhelming feelings and be better moms.

Ultimately, your judgement hurts the kids.[/quote]

YES.

This is a normal response of a person to an untenable situation. That doesn't mean it's okay; it's just NOT because the person is broken, faulty, or abnormal. The situation needs to be changed -- not the person.[/quote]

I wrote at 8:44.  ITA, but I will say that it can be very helpful to go to therapy.  A good therapist will be an outside voice who draws attention to the fact that your situation is untenable, gives you permission to name it as untenable, and gives you strategies to change or better manage it.

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