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[quote=Anonymous]It is really difficult to realize that you are basically meaningless and nothing you do can make your spouse happy. Nothing. But once you learn, and just be your best self, you don't have to feel responsible when your husband is moping around. Just do your thing, invite him along, and don't feel bad when he says no. He'll either shape up eventually, or you'll have a good time without him. My husband was too busy for a vacation this summer. I was annoyed, but I went on vacation without him instead of letting that fester (although it fester a little, because I did feel hurt that certain work things were more important to him than me and our children. 12 weeks over the summer and no time for a vacation.) It isn't like he is in seasonal work, in which case I'd understand. You don't take a vacation in Sept-October if you run a cornmaze/haunted house. [/quote]
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