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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can someone please clarify this...

I always thought that during dad's time, mom has no say regarding who's providing transportation to and from daycare to dad's house, babysitting, etc?

Does the fact that the person picking up DD is is the father's wife (lethally married, rather than a girlfriend) make a difference?

The reason OP is saying no is NOT because she's concerned about her child's welfare when she's with her stepmom... she's already admitted it's because she feels her ex isn't putting enough effort as it is.

That being said, if OP isn't concerned for her child's welfare/safety with stepmom, how would a judge view this?

Would the judge think that OP is overstepping by making this decision based on HER perspective?

Would a judge think it's the OP's place to determine what her ex's level of effort should be, or would this decision be entirely up to the judge if she protested?[/quote]

Most judges support parents having right of first refusal - meaning before one parent outsources childcare, they offer the time to the other parent first.

This is common practice. A judge wouldn’t blink at OP offering to pick up her daughter on days her dad can’t make it. [/quote]

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