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[quote=Anonymous]He sounds like he is passive aggressive and also has control issues, OP. He wants to have plausible deniability by claiming that he was "trying to help" or "not trying to (piss you off)". ie: "it is not my fault, it is your fault for not accepting the bone I am throwing you." DH does this sh*t all the time, and I notice that his family members do, too - to each other, but mostly to DH. It is how they communicate, but it seems more like a useless p*ssing contest. By chance, dos your DH's family stoop to these levels? It may be all they know. Stand up for yourself, and stop letting him make you feel like you are asking too much, when you ask him to pick something up at the store (for example). MIL is severely lazy to a point that I am convinced something is really truly wrong with her. It is exhausting and essentially saying things like "I don't feel like helping, so I did what I felt like doing, and you should accept that." Bull sh*t. Be a partner and contribute to the family in a loving manner. It is crazy making and gaslighting, too. I am so sorry you are going through this. It positively sucks to live with someone like this. [/quote]
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