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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I got divorced six years ago because we grew apart. I am now remarried and so much happier. My wife is also remarried and very happy. We have two kids and they are doing great. We both remarried people our age who didn't have kids prior and had no desire to have kids. [b]My kids are 10 and 13.[/b] They have four parents that truly love them and are on their side. We are 50/50 custody, so that always helps, too. We all also go out to dinner together as a blended family once a month. Things can be fine, as long as all the adults put the kids first. [/quote]

My parents got divorced when my sibling and I were 3 and 7 and ended up in a situation that sounds very similar to yours.  We handled it as best we could as kids, but we are both still dealing with the grief of our parents' divorce 30 years later.  It is still a constant part of who were are.  Having to figure out how to fairly share holidays between our parents and non-divorced inlaws, visits with grandkids, visits to see them in different states, eldercare, etc.  We will never be done dealing with the repercussions of our parents' divorce.

Even amicable splits where everyone is (mostly) acting like grownups can have long-lasting consequences for children.  I'm not anti-divorce in all situations, but it makes me crazy when I heard adults say kids are resilient and will be fine.  My parents thought and continue to think we are fine, too.  We are not.[/quote]

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