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[quote=Anonymous]This happened to me. I was the chubby older one.(which I really wasn't, I had a round face and wasn't stick skinny, which was a requirement in the 70s and 80s). Sister was beautiful, skinny one. My sister is stunningly beautiful, no joke. It was also relatives that made comments. This still affects me. I lost around 5kg at 15, 16 and was super skinny ever since. As you can see, I am approaching 50 and these things are still in my head, I managed to be confident and try not to let it affect me now, but still a sore spot. Sister is now chubby, still beautiful, and yet I resent being put on a diet when I was 2 by mom, I resent having the fake compliment how I was "healthy looking," shelled out non stop. It is a toxic cycle that stays with you for the rest of your life. Please cut off any such comment right away. You have no idea how your younger will turn out, but damage by idiotic comments will stay with her forever, like it has stayed with me.[/quote]
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