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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you know it was the girls from last night and not some other time? How do you know it wasn’t stumbled upon accidentally? Don’t these kids have phones with the internet in it - why do they even need your iPad? Did you ever have a rule against this? Disney characters? Seems more like a joke/something funny? What, exactly, is the problem with girls looking at porn? I would not punish. I would discuss with my daughter.[/quote] Discuss what exactly? What would you say?[/quote] DP, but if you haven’t discussed porn with your child, you must. They WILL see it, and you want them to be prepared. They need to know that porn is not a realistic depiction of sex, that porn actors are actors, and that porn usually is made from the male point of view and makes it seem like female pleasure doesn’t matter (or that things that don’t feel good to most girls give them pleasure). Porn often mixes force and degradation with sex in subtle and not so subtle ways, and that isn’t what you want in your child’s head, and they shouldn’t want it in their head either. I’ve had all these conversations with my 12 year old son, and hopefully he has never seen porn. The conversations have been interesting, not too uncomfortable.[/quote]
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