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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Husband.  We’ve been together 24 years and I’ve never cheated and I doubt she has either.  With this much time together if I found out she slipped up I wouldn’t be angry, in fact I’d be kind of happy for her. [/quote]

Interesting.  Why?[/quote]

We both led rich and fun lives before we got together, my lips haven’t touched another since the day we got together and like I said before I don’t think hers  have either. 
I miss the thrill of new flirting, new perfume, feeling new curves on a hip or waist, the electric first kisses etc. and I’m sure she does too, why wouldn’t she? We’ve been together nearly half of our lives (both 46 now) and if at some point in our time together she got to have a make out session with a stranger in a bar or some rando then I would be happy for her to have had a break from our long-term monogamy.  I am 99% sure she feels the same way for me,  and we’ve always had this don’t ask don’t tell agreement that we we joke about but I’m pretty sure she’s never acted on it and I haven’t either; it’s not the closed doors that bother us, the locked doors we can’t get into are the ones that make us crazy. [/quote]

I like that you can be this open. Not sure that if/when the cheating actually happens you won't feel differently. Although, if you really do have a DADT policy (joking about it means it isn't quite real) then it isn't cheating. I think you should firm that up.[/quote]

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