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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wasn’t allowed to have my boyfriend sleep over when I was 19 and home from college. And neither was he. A 19 year old does not have the right to have her boyfriend sleep over every night. He’s being pretty presumptuous. When I was just out of college early 20s I dated a guy who lived with his dad. His dad travelled a lot for work so I would sleep there when his dad was away, but when his dad was home, I tried not to sleep there more than once or twice a week. I felt like his dad deserved his own space.

One summer in college my boyfriend and I wanted to live together and not have to deal with parents, so we rented and paid for our own summer sublet.

I also lived at my parents a few times off and on in my twenties and I only had boyfriends sleep over when they were out of town.

You don’t want her to feel entitled to a cush boomerang situation. Having some rules in place will motivate her to get her own place when she graduates from college. [/quote]

Pp here. And my parents are still married. There were no steps involved. [/quote]

He's not spending the night, just coming over a lot and staying late.[/quote]

Well, ok, but my parents also had rules about that. I think my boyfriend had to leave by 11pm on weeknights and by 1am on weekends. And he didn’t stay there all the time. It’s just good manners not to. You’re not supposed to overstay your welcome when you are a guest.[/quote]

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