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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wasn’t allowed to have my boyfriend sleep over when I was 19 and home from college. And neither was he. A 19 year old does not have the right to have her boyfriend sleep over every night. He’s being pretty presumptuous. When I was just out of college early 20s I dated a guy who lived with his dad. His dad travelled a lot for work so I would sleep there when his dad was away, but when his dad was home, I tried not to sleep there more than once or twice a week. I felt like his dad deserved his own space.

One summer in college my boyfriend and I wanted to live together and not have to deal with parents, so we rented and paid for our own summer sublet.

I also lived at my parents a few times off and on in my twenties and I only had boyfriends sleep over when they were out of town.

You don’t want her to feel entitled to a cush boomerang situation. Having some rules in place will motivate her to get her own place when she graduates from college. [/quote]

Pp here. And my parents are still married. There were no steps involved. [/quote]

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