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[quote=Anonymous]Honestly OP, this has been the issue with our teenage son since about age 14.  Now 17.  And no, I don’t really talk to other moms about it.

In my kids case, he’s been open to us about struggling with his sexuality.  My guess is he’s bisexual. Maybe he’s gay and doesn’t want to admit it to himself.

This was an ongoing, every time we restricted, he found a way around it thing. We put on a blocker, he got around it. We took the phone, he got it back and the porn was back.

He’s working with a therapist who is a younger guy who specializes in adolescent boys.  He’s says it’s really helpful, but he isn’t ready to talk to us about his sexuality yet.  We’re here when he is.  He recently told me maybe he could see himself having kids one day. Which tells me he can start to envision a healthy relationship with someone.  And thats encouraging.

Otherwise great kid, BTW.  No substances. Great grades and. SATs, nice person. Just this.

We try to model a healthy relationship and make it clear that sex is not like porn.  Discuss consent and healthy relationships.

At 17, we are now loosening up on electronic restrictions, because we don’t have a choice.

I agree porn is a huge problem and unhealthy.  But people saying it’s bad, so stop him need to realize how hard it is to stop a determined kid who needs a laptop for school, and that if you don’t deal with the reasons they want porn, content blocking isn’t enough.

If someone has other suggestions, I’m all ears. [/quote]

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