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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I blame the family law system, which leads women to believe that they will get everything. My ex-wife spent years bullying me, threatening divorce, and telling me if divorce happened she'd get everything--all the time with the children, all my money, retirement, house, etc. She had no incentive to behave well or participate in counseling because all she had to do was drive me from the home and she'd win the lottery.

It didn't work out that way for her, but only because I fought like hell and spent a lot on attorneys. But many other men haven't been so lucky.

I tell all young men to avoid marriage at all costs, and if they are dumb enough to get married, don't have kids. If they're dumb enough to marry and have kids, just have one child and make sure your wife is always working and always have a backup plan and hidden savings ($40,000) so you can hire a good attorney.

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Crying with laughter at how wrong your view of the system being anti male is.  I am divorced. Father takes no parenting responsibilities. Father pays less than half of cost of raising kids. DC1 is a girl.  She will never get married or have children.  She has seen up close and personal how an irresponsible parent can torpedo the other spouse/parent’s life.  Sadly, when she looks around at other families, she sees very few men who have taken on equal parenting responsibilities.

There’s a reason millenial marriage rates are down/later, and for the most part it’s because women see no benefit to participating, but, in fact, only downside. [/quote]

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