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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have two kids together. He’s 38. Basically, the marriage isn’t working. He’s lied for the past five years, I don’t think I’ll move past it, but what keeps me from wanting to leave is the thought of him starting a new family at 40 with some late 20-something because now he has money. 
It’s petty, but so were a his really stupid lies. [/quote]

How are you going to do this, op?  He has free will and can say no.  Are you performing the surgery yourself while asleep?  Otherwise, I would abandon this idea.  Either work on the marriage or get a divorce. [/quote]

Yes, I’ll be preforming the procedure after I’ve drugged him.  :roll:

Something like, “I want you to get a vasectomy if you’re serious about me staying we can’t have any more surprises come up” or as others suggested, “I’d really like to start trying for another baby soon.”
We have two for context. I’m 31. [/quote]

You know I wasn't serious about the surgery, right?  My point was you can suggest it but,you can't make him.   Is he worried about having an oopise?  We have two and no oopises so it can be done.  I think you should spend time working on the marriage, barring physical and emotional abuse or addiction.  [/quote]

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