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OP,

At this point you must be a troll. You've posted multiple times before. If you're not a troll, your aunt is simply harassing you and your family and it's time to be direct and forceful. Tell her that you will file a restraining order if she comes near you or attempts to contact you, period. Never see her again. Make it known that you will not go to events if she's there, and that you will leave if you come and see her at an event. No more niceties. 
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She's not a troll.  She's dealing with a borderline or narcissist.  She's posted here so many times because one symptom of dealing with these kinds of people is utter confusion, so that's why OP keeps posting here.  When people behave in ways that go so far outside what seems to be normal, you start to question yourself.  Especially if other relatives have developed their own coping techniques that involve minimization, concessions, or denials.  [/quote]

OK. However, we've been repeating this for ages. Ignore. Avoid. Why is OP still wondering what to do? Block aunt on every device for every family member. Why would OP even want to read or listen to any communication from her aunt at this point? If she dies, one of her family members will tell her. OP and her family must tell everyone they cannot attend events where her aunt will be present, because she has stalked and harassed them. Hopefully family members will find a way to gather the family without the aunt. Perhaps not. In that case, OP can invite people to her own gatherings, and stop aunt from trespassing on her property. There are ways to deal with this, but the first thing is to accept that relations with the aunt are permanently over.

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