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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One important thing to keep in mind OP: —>>

There are no shortcuts.

Meaning in order to properly heal and thus truly move on, you will have to deal w/your pain head-on.
You need to let your mind/body/soul grieve fully.

It will be painful, but worth it in the end.
Don’t try getting rid of the pain earlier by doing anything destructive such as drinking too much or rushing out to meet other people.

Doing so will only prolong your healing.

Hugs to you.
I wish you only the best.[/quote]

This. Acknowledging that it will hurt helps. At least it helped me. I always felt I had to get better and get over it fast, or I was a loser.

After The last one, I specifically took a break from dating and got therapy to figure out why I was choosing the wrong men.  Not saying you need that. You are young, I was not.

Create new rituals. If coffee and a newspaper on Sunday mornings were your thing as a couple, start hiking on Sunday mornings instead. That type of thing.new rituals and new schedules help.[/quote]

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