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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm guessing what happened is she talked to some nanny buddies and realized she's not getting what they are getting or she's doing duties that other nannies aren't doing for the same level of pay.  I have had a nanny and have been through this dynamic.

This is what is tricky about the nanny-parent dynamic.  It is an incredibly personal relationship.  This person is in your home and taking care of your children.  But then also, it's a business relationship and she's not a part of your family, she's working for you and has her own needs to look out for.

It sounds like her timing sucks.  No question about that.  But try to figure out if what she's asking for is fair and if she's a good, reliable nanny who loves your kids, don't be so eager to get rid of her.  They are hard to find.
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It sounds like there’s an element of truth to the above. A nanny who meal preps and drives the kids around is pretty hard to find. She might be feeling unappreciated already and your maternity leave expectations might have been the proverbial straw that broke the camels back.

You haven’t responded about how much you’re paying her and what kind of raise she’s getting after the baby arrives. Were you planning on paying her overtime during your hospital stay? Or were you expecting more hours at the same rate?

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