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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP here.  Don’t tell your parents.  The only people who need information are the guardians.[/quote]

I disagree with that.  I wouldn't want my kids, in the midst of the trauma of their parents death, to be transitioned to grandparents who think that they will have custody, and told that that's the plan, and then have to move again when the will is open.

Also, naming a guardian in your will is not a legally binding thing.  Kids aren't property.  You can't will them to someone.  So, the chances that grandparents will win in a custody battle are real, and even if they don't a custody battle would be devastating.  Getting parents on board with the plan is critical.[/quote]

Excellent point. It's crazy how many people think you can make a legally binding custody agreement. The point of naming guardians is to get everyone on board.  Personally I think it's better to name a first-degree relative (grandparent or aunt/uncle). No matter how great you think your friendships are, it's not the same as actual blood relatives. Sure, your baby or toddler may be cute and adorable, but is your best college bud really going to want to deal with say a teen with behavioral issues? Plus your friend may not feel that they can say no, whereas family should be able to be more honest. I realize that there may be some friendships that are so long and enduring as to be like family, but I don't think that's necessarily the norm.  [/quote]

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