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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think taking child on al, the holidays and summers are fair to the “regular time” parent, even if the amount of time is the same as the regular custody schedule. Basically “regular time” parent is balancing work, school, activities, regular parenting, etc. And “vacation time” parent has to balance less. It’s exactly what people on here call “Disney Dads”. OP should also be able to get those relaxed weeks with their child, especially as now they will be 100% slugging it the rest of the year. OP gets to parent, but never gets a week to take their child camping, or on vacation, or just hang out exploring for a week, unless they pull them out of school. It’s doing all the heavy lifting, while ex get the rewards. They are never there to help women it’s homework, go to parent teacher meetings, help with angst, sick days off school, etc. They get a vacation kid. [/quote]

You are right.  So, instead of complaining, give the other parent custody and then they do all the hard work.  Usually mom's get custody and Dads get visitation and mom's like you bitterly complain except they aren't willing to hand over custody.[/quote]

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