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[quote=Anonymous]One thing to be careful of is that certain clothes might be associated with certain cliques. So, for instance, I offered to buy my DD some clothes from a certain athleisure clothing store that I understood to be "popular." She was vehemently opposed and I came to understand that particular brand was, at her school, worn very commonly by a certain clique of girls that was not very nice to her. She did not want to look like she was a "wannabe." So there's some value in letting her find her place before trying to create an image for her through clothing. I have heard that the kids are weirdly judgmental about shoes/sneakers and also technology. But I figure getting teased for having knock-off tech is probably at least a little character-building. Also, I think a safe bet is cute tee-shirts that have a phrase or something from something she's into. So, if she's into Hamilton, one of the T-shirts with a quote. Witty humor that signifies your interests seems "in," at least among some kids. Avoid anything too preppy that looks like you're trying too hard to look "nice," unless that's what she affirmatively wants in which case she should own it. But a better suggestion, rather than clothes, is joining groups. At these big MSs, it's really hard for the girls to make new friends. The friends my DD has made have all been through after-school clubs, which often attract kids with similar interest and personalities.[/quote]
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