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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s horrible from all sides. But I had a pretty negative reaction to the lady who was about herself (my immediate reaction was wasn’t able to bond, feed with her body, blah blah blah). Yes, I get it’s a shock, but you’d hope your first thoughts would be about your baby and not your missed opportunity. Hopefully her journey will develop to an understanding that a child’s mother doesn’t have to be the one to birth them to be a good mother.

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I’ve never been through fertility treatments, but I imagine if I’d desperately wanted a child, had to subject myself to multiple rounds of unsuccessful IVF, and then out of the blue was told I had a child but someone else had given birth to him and depending on how things went with a court, I might never get to have him, I might have some grief and fear and anger about everything I’d missed out on (and might continue to miss out on if things didn’t go my way).  Maybe give just a little credit that when someone has gone through something that shocking and traumatizing, their emotions might be going all over the place and their reaction might not be what you, as a detached, unemotional observer, think is best.[/quote]

And then layer on top of that you are (rightfully) suing the clinic and need to make the case that you were impacted by the mixup. [/quote]

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