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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I somehow feel like more details are needed. Ages of the kids? Reasons for the cancellations? Do you pay your child support (which I know is separate from visitation). Are you changing the hours or conditions for pickup / drop off? Is there a reason yu R home may be unsafe or similar right now? Also, why would you wait 6 years before this was a problem? [/quote] Really this. I posted above. The one time I cancelled my ex’s time, it was winter and he didn’t have working heat. His plan was to buy several space heaters. DC was a toddler. I felt like it was an unnecessary fire risk. Other times that I suggested rescheduling, it was for times that he seemed overwhelmed with the sheer weight of living. There’s a note in his voice that comes right before he explodes or breaks down. I tell him DC is fine to switch weekends.I will always focus on safety over the paper.[/quote]
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