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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are trying to conceive baby number 1. I have PCOS so I’ve been taking Femara and a trigger shot each month (this is only 2nd medicated cycle). Whenever I mention anything TTC related,[b] my husband acts indifferently, or worse, mean.[/b] He says all I talk about is TTC, which is not true because I’ve made a conscious decision NOT to do that. He also rolls his eyes, etc . Due to this behavior, I’ve asked him multiple times if he wants to keep trying and he tells me yes, but I just don’t understand where this attitude is coming from.  I’m not sure if it’s the hormones or what, but my feelings are hurt. I feel like he’s not in this with me. Has anyone BTDT? Not sure what I’m looking for... I guess I just needed to vent somewhere. [/quote]

it's my understanding the OP hasn't followed up with any more information other than this ...

I think everyone jumping to divorce are sensationalizing.  Until we know more about the situation we can't know if this is a major "red flag" in their marriage, if OP is being overly sensitive as a result of hormones (she mentions trigger shots), or they just have different ways of dealing with challenges.

regardless - the advice should be COMMUNICATION - marriage is hard, if you jump ship at the first challenge you will never grow together.  put in the work and effort to communicate your feelings while making sure to be respectful and empathize with his feelings, as what he needs may differ from what you need, and neither need is right or wrong, just different.[/quote]

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