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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]	Did you all forget that it's 4th Of July this week? I'm surprised the op's girlfriend doesn't want to see him on a nice holiday, it's a nice time of year, she can wear a cute dress, and who doesn't want to watch fireworks with a romantic partner? I'm also not convinced the girlfriend is as scatter-brained as op wants to think. It's interesting that when it came down to who's plans to cancel, the girlfriend chose to cancel plans with her boyfriend not plans with a friend. It's also interesting that the girlfriend didn't want op anywhere in the neighborhood when she is with this "friend". Might she be a lesbian op? 
My advice would be that you find a local lady who wants to spend time with you. You say you want a relationship, don't waste your time on someone who doesn't. Also, don't use pretty language to justify behavior that is unacceptable to you. These free spirit ladies can get it together when they want to. Your girlfriend is a prime example of this, she wasn't a free spirit when it came to seeing her friend, and she canceled plans with you in order to do it. This wasn't a mutual "I'll go see my brother this week and you go see your mom". As my dad says, nobody has to be in a relationship with you, but if they are, they need to see you and make you a priority.  If they choose not to, they have no say in what you do with your time and energy when you two are apart.     Also, don't let the ladies on here scare you, "my friend broke up with a guy... I'd have broken up with my husband if...". We all know that if you were a woman posting about a boyfriend who bailed on her, everybody would respond with "he's just not that into you". There would be no "Give him a chance" nonsense.  
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Wow! This may be one of the craziest replies I’ve read in a while.

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