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[quote=Anonymous]It does seem unfair but you could get surprised, too. We lived across the country for a number of years. My family is all in another country/could never have helped. We paid for a nanny for 10 years in order to have a 'family-like' experience in our home, and it was a lot of $ but it was our choice/and our choice to have all the kids. We finally moved close to DH's family and it was a combination of aging out/being older and more independent/one driving now/having had 'their turn' that caused my inlaws to pretty much say to SIL and her family "well you've had a free ride all this time- we will continue to help as we can but you are going to be on your own more now that the other grandkids are here".[/quote]
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