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[quote=Anonymous]I'd definitely consider couciling to talk these things out.  He might not fully grasp the fact that you have a medical condition that will not allow you to conceive without some form of infertility treatment.  If you need to go more serious routes to conceive, such as IVF, you need to make sure now that he's going to be there with you.  And if he's not, you don't want to have a child with someone that isn't supportive.

As for his reactions to you, there's no excuse for him being rude to you.  But I will say, I don't think men aren't as interested in the details as we are since it's not their bodies.  My husband has always been supportive during our IVF process (which we're doing because of his infertility which we knew about prior to our marriage), but he never really seemed to take much interest in the details.  He was excited when there was good news, but I don't think he ever paid attention to me when I was telling him about medication changes and how my scans went.  And when I had a miscarriage, he was never that upset.  He was cautiously optimistic the whole time and said he never really wanted to get excited about the pregnancy until it got further along.  [/quote]

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