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[quote=Anonymous]OP, just clear the air today. Don’t let this carry over. Explain that you’re juggling s lot and it would have been helpful if he offered to help with Larkin’s or ask if there was anything he could do, if an evening out depended on it. And in the future when he says, can you call, you can say, sure, let’s trade. You take the baby and I’ll take the laptop. Then go into another room and let him parent. Address the money comment - explain that it felt controlling or as if you work for him - you don’t. That mindset needs to be addressed. 3 years is early enough in a marriage when you can invest in course correcting when you see problems so it doesn’t grow into cemented issues that will break them later. Agree with rec to look up Gottmans 4 horses[/quote]
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