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Reply to "Husband screamed at me and never apologized or acknowledged it"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]While there are clearly issues in this relationship, I do not think that it is ever okay for one spouse to scream at another after drinking, threaten self-harm, and then pretend nothing happened. THAT is something that abusers do. It should be possible for one partner to be frustrated with certain things and express that frustration to their spouse without an angry outburst. [b]That you guys think this is all OP's fault is pretty terrible[/b].[/quote] We know her pattern.[/quote] It really is all her fault. What did that guy do to provoke her attack on him? The guy comes home from having a few drinks with friends and, once in the door, she hits him with how they aren't keeping up with their friends? He tries to distance himself from her and she FOLLOWS HIM, still being pathetic? How is any of this his fault? I feel like she enjoys pushing his buttons and knows just which ones to push and just the right time to push them, then digs in and doesn't back off until she gets the reaction she wants so she can complain about what a mean guy he is to her.[/quote]
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