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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't share info about my kids online. We do have a family group, and I share info there. SIL is in the group and has always been up and down. The last few years, she has had a nonexistent relationship with us or the kids. The kids barely know who she is. I would like to not share pictures, updates, etc about my kids with her because I don't share that with other random people (or even not random people). The group consists only of grandparents and aunts and uncles who really are interested in getting daily/weekly updates.

Should I just let this go and continue to share? Removing her will cause a lot of drama, and DH's parents will be sad. However, I feel like it's an invasion of my kids' privacy and she doesn't really deserve this level of detail. Tell me I'm being petty and should let this go. I guess at the heart of it, [b]I'm also hurt [/b]that she takes no time to get to know the kids. They have no role in whatever anger she has toward my in-laws (which is the reason for the nonexistent relationship). [/quote]

Your feelings are hurt so you are retaliating.  Not a good look, OP.[/quote]

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