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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I actually do think sex 1x a week is more than most men get so be happy with that![/quote]

That's BS. Have the talk. Let her know that you need it more than you are getting it and that it's making you unhappy in your marriage. When she brings up other marriages, tell her you aren't talking about anyone else and you didn't marry those women for a reason. You married her and that you had sex more frequently then. Ask her if there is something you can do to make the sex more enjoyable for her.[b] If it doesn't get better, when you go to parties, be sure to chat with other women and make them laugh. It's amazing what competition does for a woman's sex drive. If her friend's start talking about how great you are, she will make an effort not to lose you.[/b]

By now you should know her and her body. You should know what she reacts well to. Toys, oils, massages all can enhance the experience.[/quote]

I'm a woman, married 20 years with three kids, and I actually think this is pretty much the only thing that could be effective in your situation.  Most women do not desire men who they have been with for ages and have no fear of losing.

And don't get me started on the women who think they don't want sex because their husbands supposedly don't pull their weight.  The whole "choreplay" thing has been disproven, and it's been shown that men who do a lot of helping around the house actually get laid less.

Women want to feel taken care of, not like they're running a small business with their spouse.[/quote]

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