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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They don't matter if it's occasionally.  But all of these things every day, day in and day out for years is exhausting.  He just leaves it all for me to do.  Okay, assume I'm tired of the everyday.  How do you fix that?[/quote]

I don't think you fix it.  You focus on the good things he brings to the table, and other similar mental exercises.

Me - F@c* I hate when he leaves his glass here.  Calming thought - I do appreciate that he took the trash out.

Or also me - Damn it, he left the groceries on the counter.  Looks over to my own pile of work shoes, bag, and jacket sitting on the kitchen chair.

Maybe it won't help you, but my husband and I both have good and bad habits.  So I focus on the good.[/quote]

I do the same thing. I hate that he puts his shoes on the mat right inside the door, so the door gets stuck on them when I try to open it. But I love that he takes care of managing our finances and investments.

I don't think he'll ever think the kitchen needs to be cleaned as thoroughly as I do and he always leaves his wet towel on the floor after taking a shower, but I have a bad habit of leaving stuff out on the table in the backyard and it gets rained on.

In short, we all have our good and bad things. As long as you think the good outweighs the bad, it's best to not sweat the small things.[/quote]

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