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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you are obsessing over anything constantly to the point it's distracting then a little counseling to talk through it can help. It sounds like you probably understand and accept the actual reason you are not having another, but you can't get past it emotionally. This is one of the primary ways counseling can be helpful, helping people align their emotional worldview with their rational one. PPs are giving you insight into what helped them, but it's highly likely that it's because those things spoke to the underlying feelings that were making it hard to get over not having the size of family that they wanted. They may or may not help you. I feel like people often post about family size disappointment as if it were a uniquely difficult challenge to overcome. It doesn't have to be...[/quote]
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