Reply to Adorable SIL confided to me my young brother is aloof and super secretive

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Adorable SIL confided to me my young brother is aloof and super secretive"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Same situation here, only my brothers fiancés brother asked me What’s Up. 
Shitty situation, but I gave general advice: talk about the future, values, kids or no kids, future family goals, roles and responsibilities of husband/wife and father/mother expectations.

If my brother can’t answer those questions, he’s not ready to be married.

If his fiancée doesn’t like his responses, they shouldn’t get married. She will also have to use her judgement, all smoke and mirrors isn’t going to cut it.[/quote]

PP here.  I agree with the smoke and mirrors part.  If the family is too quiet, that is never good.  I know someone that married into family and the sisters were all questions to the new bride about what the bride's family did - but refused or "played dumb" about what their family did.  This was in regard to innocuous questions, too! The brothers in the family were/are not married, which tells you something -they did not like what they saw growing up, and now the bride sees it, too. Anyway, that was just one indication that the family was/is messed up.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics