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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I totally understand it can sting a little or make you wonder, but I've talked a lot of friends through decisions they were making around bridal parties and trust me, there are so many different factors and each person has their own things to consider. Sometimes it's that people have more female members in their family or close family friends, or college friends, or sometimes there is a group of friends from college that one of them is essential but if the other two weren't invited they would be SO SO hurt and that ends up throwing the bride over the edge of people, or sometimes the bride just really wants a small bridal party. Or they think certain people have more time at the moment. Or some people just want friends that they talk to very regularly. Everyone makes these decisions differently but I highly suspect it doesn't mean she doesn't care about you as a friend. Just remember it's a very individual decision with many competing interests for different people. It can be very hard, give her a little grace and tell yourself it's ok to feel bummed but it wasn't about you.[/quote]

I just saw you said no female family members etc. This still stands. Some people like to have people from different times of their life in their bridal party even if not still as close (like you did) and some prefer to have people they talk with regularly. It's just preference, and not meant to be against you I promise[/quote]

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