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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Obviously you are not under an obligation to respond to your former friend's request. Just keep forgetting to respond to texts and/or be too busy to get together. You can't tell someone you find them too annoying to hang out with.[/quote]

OP here. I agree with the above. I just don't feel that I'm obligated to give her an explanation on why we don't want to do anything with them.

She clearly has picked up on the fact that since we're busy we choose to do other things instead of things with her and is pissed off or thinks she can change our mind or whatever. I just don't care and don't want to open the door for a dramatic deep conversation on why I don't like her. I also hate people who want to have coffee to have some deep discussion which is all about their needs. Those never go well.

We'll keep ghosting but we will probably run into them at a memorial service this weekend. We'll try not to get corned and be cordial. If she pushes I'll just keep repeating we aren't interested and if she asks why I think I'll say it doesn't matter, I said no. [/quote]

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