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[quote=Anonymous]Not yet. We agreed on 3 and planned for 3 until DC2 was born. That baby was an exceptional baby but he hit our lives like a bomb. It's been 4 years now and we talk about it occasionally but Spouse says he doesn't want a third anymore and I do. We talk about it more now because it's a source if tension. He doesn't want to deal with the baby stage or the logistics of 3. I agree the baby stage (and pregnancy) is terrible but they grow out of it. And the logistics of 2 are already terrible with both of us working (Which will continue, not looking to stay at home). Compromise is hard - the only one I can think of is what PP mentioned, trying for a set time period and then moving on. But spouse needs to be okay that it may result in a baby. I wish I knew what to do. I think I will resent him and regret not even trying for another.[/quote]
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