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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, my fiance has paid for sex in the past; he let me know this when we were dating. (I asked him directly, and he was truthful; otherwise, I doubt he would willingly disclose.) It didn't bother me then and doesn't bother me now. It was when he was living abroad (in India and Europe). If it truly makes you uncomfortable, then maybe you will need to consider it a dealbreaker, but I wasn't giving up an awesome guy for that!

(BTW...I just graduated from an MBA program and many many male classmates would pay for sex while traveling personally or with the program to EU, South America, SE Asia, etc. .... all that to say, this is more common than you think and I am sure many of the women saying it is a dealbreaker don't know their husbands have done it.)[/quote]

I would say a majority of my friends who traveled to South America and SE Asia have  been with prostitutes on at least a couple occasions. It is viewed much differently there. I bet lots of women posting here have husbands who have raw dogged some hookers. And horrible judgment by the guy for dismissing this info, what a BAFOON![/quote]

It's "viewed differently there?" Sure it is ....

I believe in legalizing sex work. It would be a deal-breaker for me if they went to a prostitute in a poor country where it was overwhelmingly likely to be exploitative, unless they were very young and regreted it. Legal sex work is still dicey - I wouldn't freak out about a trip to Amsterdam or Nevada as much, but I would expect him to understand the nuances and that despite appearances, the women wasn't actually having multiple orgasms ... it would bother me if he did not recognize that even legal sex workers can be exploited, and that it is a very dangerous and difficult job. [/quote]

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