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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pay for childcare like everyone else and ship her out.[/quote]

Yes, eventually DD will start preschool at 2, but this is the best arrangement for us at the moment and what we have to work with.[/quote]

Divorce and misery is the best arrangement?  That seems to be what you have chosen.[/quote]

Also, it sounds like you are not standing up for your husband to your mom when she badmouths him.  To me, this is basically grounds for divorce on his part.  If you want to stay married, you need to tell your husband that you don't agree with your mom, you need to, at a minimum, tell your mom to stop and then walk away when she says bad things about him.  And you need to get this woman out of your house.  She's eroding your marriage, and frankly, she's a nasty bitch--seriously, who tells a toddler that her other grandmother doesn't love her?  It's not the 'best arrangement" if it's going to blow up your family, which it will.

Honestly, you might have lost respect for your husband, but I have no respect for you.  You're choosing logistical ease over your marriage vows.  Lots of dual-income families figure out childcare without relying on unpaid grandparents.  [/quote]

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