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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Many older men who have divorced after long marriages are reluctant to marry again. I get that. Many seem to want sex only relationships after years of bickering, compromising, and general marital turmoil. I get it.

Why do you try to date again after marriage instead of paying for sex (in a place where it is legal), or being upfront about nsa relationships?[/quote]

Many older women are [b]done with raising kids, are self sufficient and don’t want to be encumbered with any responsibility for another person.  Plus they set a very high bar for what they consider to be a long term ‘partner’.[/b]  Plus for them it’s a ‘buyers’ market.  Why would a guy have an expectation of something more than fwb?
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You have also precisely described many older divorced men. There is [i]even less [/i]reason for him than for an older woman to get remarried, because this exposes him to the risk that she'll divorce him and get a chunk of his retirement/pension. So why would a woman expect anything but FWB from such a man?

As for buyers/sellers market, older men are like any other kind of man -- if you are tall, well-dressed, smart, funny, confident, and have money, then you are in the category of "the 10% of men that 80% of the women are chasing".[/quote]

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