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[quote=Anonymous][quote]One poster suggested that your daughter make some outrageous statements to the girls. Do NOT do this. Provoking a bully rarely works in the bullied victim's favor. [b]Your daughter should continue to ignore, move away, and basically Gray Rock the other girls.[/b] In the meantime, for the future, you might want to read the books Queen Bees and Wannabes (Rosalind Wiseman) and Odd Girl Out (Rachel Simmons) for some insight into relational aggression by girls.[/quote] Agree. No one should be bullied, but stopping it is very difficult. You've spoken to the school. You cannot make people do what you think they should do. What does a bully want more than anything? Attention. And, do not talk to the other parents about this--it could make it worse. We all want to help our kids. But, the best way is to help control what your own child does--how she reacts, etc. And, help her realize that this does not reduce her value or truly have any effect on who she is. [/quote]
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